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Looking Ahead: Estate Planning for Early Onset Alzheimer’s and Dementia

Alzheimer’s and dementia are two of the most common fears that come with age, especially if you have a genetic predisposition to these diseases. The tragedy of these conditions is that there is truly nothing you can do to stop yourself from losing your memory. However, as you face this stark reality, it is important to be aware that there are steps that you can take, from a legal perspective, to set up your descendants for success before it is too late. When creating an estate plan, you must legally be of sound mind. If the attorney has any doubt that you have the capacity to make your own decisions, they are obligated by law to consult with a doctor. If you are at risk for developing early-onset Alzheimers, it is important to avoid delaying your estate planning journey.

Appointing a Power of Attorney

One of the most integral steps to take if you are at risk of developing Alzheimer’s or dementia is appointing a power of attorney. This allows you to communicate your healthcare preferences through legal documents. This also ensures that your medical and personal care decisions are aligned with your values and preferences, even when you are no longer able to make decisions due to cognitive decline.

A power of attorney should be bestowed on the person that you trust most to make medical decisions on your behalf when you are no longer able to do so. Your healthcare proxy will be the person advocating for you and reflecting your wishes. A durable power of attorney is equally as important. The person that you chose for this role will handle your financial affairs, pay bills, manage investments, and make any decisions regarding property or the law on your behalf.

The Living Will

The fear with Alzheimers is that you will one day no longer be able to take care of yourself, and that you must rely on others to make decisions on your behalf. Perhaps the single most essential document in estate planning for early-onset Alzheimer’s and dementia is your living will. This document is crafted while you are in a sound state of mind, able to think critically about your future. A living will can contain any and all of your wishes for how you hope to live out the rest of your life. It gives you power over your future and gives advance directives to the people responsible for taking care of you. Your living will should include preferences for medical treatment and end-of-life care as well as your desires for life-sustaining treatment, organ donation, and other critical decisions.

Other Estate Planning Considerations

Just as you would with an ordinary estate plan, it is important to think about all of your assets and what you want their journey to be. There are various types of trusts that can be used to pass down different types of assets in a wide range of formats. While you can still make decisions, it is up to you to secure both your own financial future and the future of those you care about. You will need to designate guardianship for minors if you have children you will not be able to care for in the event of an early-onset of the disease. You should also consider your long-term care options and how they will affect your assets.

If you plan to go to a long-term care facility or receive government-subsidized at-home care, there are important considerations. Nursing homes and other long-term care facilities will drain all of your assets, even liquidating properties, before turning to state-subsidies. In order to protect the financial futures of your beneficiaries, it is important that you set up an irrevocable trust. An irrevocable trust separates the ownership and control of the assets it holds. This means that you can continue living in your house, but since the asset is no longer legally owned by you, it cannot be targeted by nursing homes or other creditors. After you pass away, the house will safely go to your beneficiary.

Navigating this process is extremely difficult, and likely impossible, without an experienced attorney by your side. A good attorney will set you up for success to the best of their ability in your personal, financial, and medical future. If you have any further questions about when it is the ideal time to begin your estate planning journey, please call the Trust and Estate Planning Law Office at (718) 333-2395 to take your next steps.

Why is it important for Black families to write a will?

Writing a will is not just an administrative task—it is a critical step that ensures your loved ones are provided for even after you are gone. Surprisingly, many individuals, including celebrities, neglect this essential aspect of estate planning. A-listers such as Chadwick Boseman, John Singleton, and PnB Rock tragically passed away without a will in place, leaving their hard-earned legacies to be tangled in lengthy and costly probate battles. However, it is Singleton and PnB Rock’s estate that draws our attention, serving as recent and instructive case studies from which we can learn valuable lessons.

Estate Planning Within the Black Community

Startling statistics from a recent 2021 survey on wills and estate planning reveal a stark reality: while 33% of Americans have taken the crucial step of creating a will, only 27.5% of Black Americans have done the same. It is estimated that over the next 25 years, $68 trillion will be transferred from American households to inheritors and charity. However, due to the underrepresentation in estate planning, the Black community stands at risk of missing out on a substantial portion of this transformative wealth transfer.

The confusing reality of wealthy individuals, including Black celebrities, who fail to establish a will after their passing raises a fundamental question: How could individuals with significant wealth find themselves in such a vulnerable position? The answer lies in a larger issue: the lack of emphasis or education surrounding the importance of wills and estate planning, not only for these individuals but also within the broader Black community.

This can be attributed to various complex reasons such as redlining, a discriminatory practice that emerged in the 1930s and refused financial services to individuals on the basis of race and ethnicity. Through this practice, segregation was reinforced as limited housing opportunities forced Black individuals into concentrated pockets for poverty thus limiting the ability to move into more prosperous neighborhoods. Concentrated pockets of poverty translates to restricted access to quality education, healthcare, and job opportunities. All of these factors have an impact on knowledge of wealth building opportunities such as estate planning to this day.

The Case of John Singleton

John Singleton is a Black film director, screenwriter, and producer who passed away in April 2019. He’s best known for his film debut “Boyz n the Hood”, and most recently his work as co-writer for the Hulu Original “Snowfall”. At the time of his death, his estate was valued at $6.8 million. The contents of his estate include a Los Angeles home, a 1999 Lexus, a 2003 Mercedes Benz, a 2012 sailboat, ownership of 70% interest in Crunk Pictures, LLC, and was the owner of the New Deal Productions that was valued at $3.2 million.

However, at the time of his death, Singleton had no trust and an outdated will that was created in 1993. He was a father to several children, but only his eldest daughter was included in the outdated will. As one can imagine, when it came time to settle the distribution of his estate, his children were in a battle to acquire their portion of the foregone estate. This battle began after the Singleton’s passing in 2019 and recently ended in February 2023. This is a testament to the extensive process of probating. Aside from the tragic passing of Singleton, another tragedy is the effect probating has had on his family. For the past 4 years, the Singleton family have slandered each other on social media amid discourse about various subjects, but specifically about the distribution of the estate. This not only tarnishes the household name, but also the grieving process. This could have been avoided had the will been updated.

PnB Rock and the Importance of a Will When You’re Young

The rapper and singer PnB Rock is another example of a celebrity who made the mistake of not writing a will. PnB Rock passed away in September of 2022, and left behind Stephanie Sibounheuang, his girlfriend and the mother of his daughter. On Instagram LIVE, she shared that her boyfriend had no life insurance or a will. “We didn’t have nothing set up. We’re so young, we didn’t plan on death. I don’t get no death benefits. I don’t get nothing.” Furthermore, the mother of his child, due to the absence of a will, has been faced with the task of providing for herself as well as her child on her own.

Writing a will is essential to making sure your loved ones are taken care of. No matter how young or old you are, having a will should be a priority. Life is unexpected and as Sibounheuang stated, they were so young that they didn’t plan on death. Death is not something that can be planned but an estate is. Writing a will seems intimidating to many, but with help from a credible attorney, the process will be made simpler.

The trust and estate planning office specializes in wills and trusts while also understanding the unique challenges faced by Black Americans when it comes to estate planning. In addition to Inna's impressive credentials, our clients have consistently praised her compassionate approach to addressing their concerns during what can be a stressful process. One client expressed, “First she made you feel at ease with [the] entire process and spoke to my family very frankly and openly giving them episodes from her experience [of] how something could go wrong so they had a good idea of what type of trust they need to set up.” When seeking will and trust services, Inna Fershteyn is the professional to trust. To begin drafting your will today, please contact our dedicated Trust and Estate Planning Office at 718-333-2395.

How do Non-marital Children Inherit Wealth Under NY State law if their Parents Die Without a Will?

Loved ones are not always family by blood, especially as the traditional, “nuclear family” structure is fading in frequency. In the eyes of the law, a legal family may differ from what society typically defines as a family unit. While this distinction may seem unfair, it is important to understand that there are specific measures one must take to align legal status with emotional and familial bonds. When you die without a will, or die intestate, your assets go through the probate process and then are distributed according to the law. Not only do legal beneficiaries often lose money to probate fees, but New York State law only takes into account legally named children as beneficiaries. By creating a strong estate plan, you will ensure that those you love, no matter your relationship, will inherit the assets you believe they deserve.

New York State Intestate Law and Nonmarital Children

Intestate laws, which govern the distribution of assets when someone passes away without a valid will, vary depending on your state. New York State intestate laws are intricate and often difficult to understand. These laws may not align with your desired outcomes or yield ideal results for you and your family structure. To briefly outline basic New York intestate law:

If the deceased has a spouse, the spouse inherits everything
If they have a spouse and children, then the first $50,000 plus half of the balance goes to the spouse while the children inherit the remaining half of the balance
If children die prior to the deceased, then grandchildren step into the role and inherit instead of the children

It is important to note that while adopted children inherit assets like a biological child, foster children and stepchildren are only allowed to inherit if they are legally adopted. Non-marital children, or children born to an unmarried couple, will inherit from their mother automatically without any further requirements. However, non-marital children will only inherit from their father when paternity is established. Paternity can be established through legal acknowledgment by the father, court determination, or genetic testing. If a non-marital child dies, their spouse, mother, and maternal family are automatically entitled to their estate. The father and paternal family are also included, provided that paternity has been established. There are more layers to New York State intestate law, but in summary, it is very complex and does not often act in your favor if you have a non-traditional family structure.

In the event that a father figure dies prior to establishing legal paternity or an estate plan, a nonmarital child can still inherit wealth if they file a paternity petition with a family court and win their case. If it is possible to show DNA results, legal documents, or any other proof that would be accepted in a court of law, they can obtain a share of their father’s wealth. However, this is a lengthy process and it is often difficult to establish paternity after the father has passed, especially with no DNA test. After paternity has been established, the nonmarital child can assert their inheritance rights as a legal heir and file a petition with the probate court to make a claim against their parent’s estate. This process is filled with unpredictability and it can be months or even years before the case is resolved. As nonmarital parents, it is wise to consult with a knowledgeable estate planning attorney in order to explore your options to ensure that your child and assets are protected in the event of your passing.

Avoiding Probate

Creating an estate plan is a proactive and prudent step that can help you avoid the headache that comes with the probate process. By meticulously crafting an estate plan, you can ensure that your assets are distributed according to your wishes. Life flies by quickly, and you never know what might happen tomorrow, so it is never too early to make an initial plan. You must also acknowledge that estate planning is not a one-time endeavor. It is important to routinely update your estate plan when important milestones occur such as getting married, accumulating new wealth, and welcoming children. A well-thought-out and comprehensive estate plan goes beyond asset distribution, encompassing many different elements such as the establishment of trusts, designation of beneficiaries, appointment of guardians for minor children, and planning for tax implications. By considering all of these aspects, you will maximize your personal benefit and the benefit for your inheritors. This is especially important for parents of nonmarital children, specifically fathers, because New York Intestate law will not be on your side. By taking the time to create and regularly update your estate plan, you inevitably gain control over your financial legacy and ensure that your hard-earned assets fall into the desired hands.

Estate planning can be a daunting task, and most people do not want to engage in such a process because it forces them to face their mortality. However, no matter how old you are, if you have any assets that you see as valuable, it is essential that you set up an estate plan. Estate planning gives you autonomy over who your assets go to and it helps descendants avoid dealing with the taxing probate process after you pass. In non-traditional family situations, estate planning is essential because New York State intestate law does not often work in your favor. It is important to have an experienced attorney by your side throughout your estate planning journey to help maximize the benefits and minimize the long-term costs. If you have any further questions or are ready to begin your estate planning journey, please contact the Trust and Estate Planning Law Office at (718) 333–2395.

Is it Worse to Die Without a Will in New York or New Jersey?

There comes a time in everyone’s lives when they ask the question –– do I need a will? The answer is indubitably yes, everyone needs a will. When someone dies without a will, all of their assets, with the exception of assets that are held jointly or that require a named beneficiary upon creation, are distributed based on a state’s intestacy laws. A will is a document that lists the individuals your assets will be allocated to in the event of death, and having such a document can save your loved ones a lot of time, angst, money, and even legal fees. To get a basic sense of state intestacy laws, we can compare New York and New Jersey.

Dying Without a Will in the State of New York

If you die without a will in the State of New York, your surviving spouse inherits the entire probate estate if there are no children or other descendants. In the case that there are children, the surviving spouse inherits the first $50,000, and the remaining balance is divided in half between the spouse and children.

If there is no surviving spouse but there are children, the entire probate estate will be passed to those descendants. The children will take their share of the probate estate “by representation”, meaning that the assets will be divided equally among the members of each surviving generation, or the generation nearest to the deceased ancestor. If the individual does not have a surviving child or spouse, the probate estate is allocated to the deceased's parents and divided equally.

In the absence of any direct surviving family, the probate estate will be divided in half between the deceased person’s maternal and paternal relatives. The specified order in which the probate estate is passed down begins with the grandparents on either side and subsequently moves to the first cousins once removed. If the surviving relative closest to the deceased is a second cousin or more removed, the probate estate passes to the State of New York.

Dying Without a Will in the State of New Jersey

In contrast, New Jersey law distributes assets through a “branch system”, where priority is strictly given to the deceased’s surviving spouse if there is no written will. In this case, the spouse inherits the entire probate estate. From there, the situation becomes increasingly complex if children from different spouses and partners are involved. For example, if the current living spouse has children with the deceased, but also with someone else, the spouse will inherit 25% of the deceased’s estate – no more than $200,000 and no less than $50,000 – then the spouse will get half of the remaining estate while the deceased’s children split the other half. In the event of no surviving children or grandchildren, then parents, siblings, and siblings’ descendants are next in line. If no one in the second branch is alive, the last branch consists of grandparents, aunts and uncles, and descendants of aunts and uncles. If no one in the last branch is alive, and there is no living spouse, then unadopted stepchildren get the last chance to inherit before the deceased’s probate estate is seized by the state.

Which is Worse?

Compared to New York, New Jersey’s intestacy laws are much more intricate, and, many times, your money may not be passed down in a direction that seems appropriate to you.

The best way to prevent these headaches is by having a written will. A will gives you autonomy, and is a safe way to ensure that your assets are allocated to the people that you believe truly deserve to benefit from your life’s work. No matter how big or small of an impact you believe your assets will make, it is important to have a plan and give you and family peace of mind. If you have any further questions or are ready to begin your estate planning journey, please contact the Trust and Estate Planning Law office at (718) 333–2395.

Steps to Creating An Asset Protection Plan To Safeguard Against Creditors

Steps to Creating An Asset Protection Plan To Safeguard Against Creditors

An asset protection trust is a legal arrangement in which an individual transfers ownership of assets to a trust, with the intention of protecting those assets from future creditors or legal action. The trust is managed by a trustee, who is responsible for managing the assets in accordance with the trust's provisions.

As mentioned previously, the primary purpose of an asset protection trust is to shield assets from potential creditors or legal action. By transferring ownership of assets to the trust, the individual can protect those assets from future claims. However, it's important to note that asset protection trusts are not foolproof, and there are limits to their effectiveness.

Creating an asset protection plan can be a complex process, and it's recommended that you consult with a legal and financial professional who specializes in this area. However, here are some general steps you can take to begin creating an asset protection plan:

Identify your assets: Make a list of all your assets, including real estate, investments, and personal property.
Assess your risks: Consider the potential risks that could threaten your assets, such as lawsuits, bankruptcy, or divorce.
Review your insurance coverage: Make sure your insurance coverage is sufficient to protect your assets in case of any risks.
Separate personal and business assets: Keep your personal assets separate from your business assets to avoid liability issues.
Consider forming a legal entity: Consider forming a legal entity, such as a limited liability company (LLC) or a trust, to protect your assets from lawsuits and other legal actions.
Transfer ownership of assets: Transfer ownership of your assets to the legal entity you created. This can provide an additional layer of protection.
Create a succession plan: Create a succession plan for your assets in case of unforeseen events such as disability, death, or divorce.
Keep your plan updated: Regularly review and update your asset protection plan to ensure it continues to meet your needs and to stay up-to-date with changing laws and regulations.

Don’t Wait to Create A Plan:

One of the biggest mistakes an individual can make is to wait until a lawsuit has been filed or is about to be filed to begin protecting their assets. If you wait until this happens, your asset protection strategies may be exposed to creditors and used against you by a judge or a jury. Unfortunately, many people wait until something bad happens to begin asset protection planning, but for your plan to be effective, you need to create it before creditors come for your assets. Creating an asset protection plan is not something that should be done quickly and or serve as a temporary fix.

If you or a loved one are looking to draft a comprehensive asset protection plan that is unique to your circumstances, contact the Law Office of Inna Fershteyn at (718) 333-2395

Why You Should Review Your Estate Plan Before A Second Marriage

It is becoming increasingly common for people to remarry and create blended families. When blended families are created, estate planning becomes a little more complicated. Estate planning for a blended family can be complicated because each spouse may want to provide for each other, their biological children, and maybe even their step-children/adopted children after their death. If this sounds like your family, you should proceed cautiously and read ahead for some guidance on estate planning.

Estate Planning Considerations Before a Second Marriage

A remarriage may create a unique set of legal questions. People assume that their adult children will automatically inherit their assets when they pass away. People make this assumption because most of their property and assets have been spent with their previous spouse, who was possibly a co-parent to the children, and the one who may have helped to build or sustain the family assets.

However, a new marriage means that the family property is governed by the laws of the new marriage. If there is no prenuptial agreement with the new spouse and they survive you, then they would inherit at least one-third of the estate according to New York laws. This means that your adult children from a previous marriage might be in for a rude awakening. A large part of the children’s inheritance might be gone due to the new spouse’s right to inherit one-third of their spouse’s estate.

In order to avoid confusion and possible heartache in the future, have these discussions with your family now. Consulting an experienced estate planning attorney will help with deciding the best ways to make sure your wishes are carried out.

Elective Shares

As stated earlier, if a spouse dies, then the surviving spouse has a right to inherit a one-third share of the deceased’s estate. This is what’s known as an elective share. By law, a spouse cannot be disinherited unless they willingly choose to be. The only way that a surviving spouse can be disinherited completely is through a prenuptial agreement, where each spouse can agree to waive any claims to an elective share of one another’s estates.

Your elective estate includes not just property in your name alone, but also most assets with beneficiary designations such as bank accounts, securities, IRA accounts, the cash value of life insurance, etc. Essentially, you would not be able to easily ignore your spouse’s rights to their elective share. One may assume that if assets are left in a trust for a child then it would be difficult for the surviving to claim their shares. However, the surviving spouse can still file a probate proceeding and possibly force the child to return the assets to satisfy the elective share law.

Prenuptial Agreement Before The Next Marriage

It’s important to recognize that a prenuptial agreement does not mean that a couple will be planning to get a divorce, or that spouses do not trust one another. Rather, couples are recognizing the importance of their upcoming legal commitment to marriage. Older clients who remarry often have important financial obligations from previous relationships such as alimony or child support payments. They may also have hard-earned estates they wish to leave to children from previous relations. In order to provide a solid foundation for their future marriage, people should consider sorting through their finances. By signing a prenup, couples are communicating their concerns for the future financial security of their other relatives and are expressing their respect for the hard-earned assets and accomplishments of their future spouse.

Review Your Estate Plan Before Remarrying

Before getting remarried it is important to focus on redoing your estate plan. During your first marriage, you may have created an estate plan, however this time it might be more complicated, especially if you have children from your first marriage and/or you have since then acquired more valuable assets. Here are some of the best methods we recommend to ensure that your interests are met when you remarry:

Take Stock. You and your soon to be spouse should take an inventory of your individual and/or shared assets and debts. Make sure to include life insurance policies and retirement plans in your stockpile. And be sure to disclose to each other all of this. It is best to be open and honest about money with your spouse.

Financial Management Decision. Once you know what both of you are worth financially, then you two need to decide if you want to combine (or not combine) assets when you are married. For example, if one spouse has significant debt (ie. student debts) you may not want to combine finances or make any joint purchases. These decisions need to be made upfront so everyone is clear on what to expect.

Discuss Who Will Receive What. You and your future spouse need to figure out who will receive your estate when you die. This can be complicated discussion if you have children from a previous marriage. By law, if you leave all your assets to your new spouse, there are no guarantees that your new spouse will be required to provide for your children. If you would like to ensure your children are provided for, there are numerous options available. Some of these options include: creating a trust for your children, naming your children as beneficiaries on life insurance policies, or explicitly giving your children joint ownership of a property. If any of these options sound appealing for your case, consult an estate planning attorney for which option is best.

Double Check Beneficiaries. If you have a previous estate plan created, you should double check who you named as the beneficiaries on your life insurance policy, and/or retirement plan. Upon reviewing, you may want to change who you previously named. However, if you are divorced, you may not be able to change some of the beneficiaries. When you return to your estate planning attorney, be sure to bring your divorce decree so they can make sure you do not violate the decree. If it is the case that you can not change your beneficiaries, you can buy additional life insurance or retirement plans where you can include your new spouse or future children.

Consult An Estate Planning Attorney. Before you remarry and if you have an existing estate plan, you should definitely consider updating your last will. You might also need to update or even create other estate planning documents like a durable power of attorney and a health care proxy.

Before or maybe after consulting an attorney, be sure to be open and honest to your family members and loved ones about your wishes so there are no surprises. If you would like to review and create a new estate plan before remarrying, please contact the Law Office of Inna Fershteyn at (718) 333-2395.

The Importance of an Elder Law Attorney

As we get older, we come to see some obstacles that our aging family members face. Oftentimes, no one prepares you for what to do when you reach your late stages of life. Healthcare, financial well-being, and long term care are commonly thought of when considering the next steps for your aging loved ones. However, it may be overwhelming to figure out all this on your own. At times like this, it is extremely helpful to visit an elder law attorney. But what exactly is an elder law attorney?

An elder law attorney focuses on assisting the older population and their loved ones. They focus on covering a wide variety of issues that the aging population face or will face. Going to an elder law attorney for a consultation to discuss future needs and what seems to be the best for you or your family may help you gain further insight on what may be needed to better your lives. They can help evaluate your current situation as well as exploring options for the future. Some common work elder law attorneys do is:

Trusts and wills
Estate planning and probate*
Nursing home planning and long term care
Medicaid and Social Security assistance
Elder abuse

* Most elder law attorneys are also esteemed at estate planning but not all estate planning lawyers are accomplished elder law attorneys so make sure to check out client reviews

By having an elder law attorney by your side, you can save time, money and avoid getting into future legal trouble. Since the laws surrounding the elderly are different in each state, it is pivotal to find an elder attorney that is knowledgeable and well-versed in their field. A skillful elder law attorney should be able to alleviate your worries about your future and you should feel as if you are in good hands. Follow this link to see some actual cases that have been alleviated by elder law attorney, Inna Fershteyn.

In addition, it is also important to know that there is no right or wrong age to meet with an elder law attorney. It is a common assumption that people have when thinking about elder law attorneys. For those in their thirties to fifties, visiting an elder lawyer may help with protecting your wealth and assets for the future. They can also have more options for you since you have the benefit of a head start. You do not necessarily have to be “old enough” or a senior to seek an elder law attorney.

If you or a loved one is looking for guidance to put your mind at ease for the future, a consultation from an adept elder law attorney should help. Please contact the Law Office of Inna Fershteyn at (718) 333-2395 to secure your road for the future today.

How to include children from prior marriages in a will?

When remarrying, it is a time to celebrate and be joyous of a new chapter in your life with a new family. However, most people do not think about estate planning during times of celebration. Having a blended family may make room for some unexpected challenges as you may want both families to take part in your estate plan. In the case that you have children from a previous marriage that you want in your estate plan, it may seem confusing and overwhelming to tackle.

If possible, you can leave your assets to your newly married spouse and hope that they will divide your assets among all your children. However, it is also possible that your spouse will not respect your wish. Before getting remarried, it is important to review or redo your estate plan. By doing so, it can clear up any possible future confusions.

Take Inventory of your Assets

- With your new spouse, you can take an inventory of your assets and debts. This can include your retirement plans and insurance policies. By being fully honest and open, you will allow your family to have better conversation and no possible hard feelings.

Decide Where You Want your Assets To Go To

- You can decide with your new spouse if you want to combine your assets or not before you get married again. By doing so, it can be clear to everyone on where the assets are going to and who it is going to.

Decide on what option you would like to secure your children’s inheritance

- There are multiple options to ensure that your children will get their designated share of inheritance:
  - Creating a trust specifically for your children
    - This allows you children to have exclusive and specific rights to hold and manage whatever benefits they will get from you.
  - Making your children beneficiaries of life insurance policies
    - Life insurance payouts will go to those who are listed as your beneficiaries when you pass away so that gives them a portion of the money.
  - Giving your children joint ownership of property
    - By doing this, your children will be able to have full ownership after you pass away- which also secures their portion of their share of your assets.

In a perfect world, you can simply leave your assets to your newlywed spouse but as always, the options for assuring your children allows for certainty. A mutual understanding between you and your new spouse will make it easier for the future and your marriage. It is important to talk about estate planning with your family. If you or a loved one wants more information about estate planning, contact the Law Office of Inna Fershteyn at (718) 333-2395.

What is a Health Care Proxy, Living Will and Durable Power of Attorney?

As you get older, you may come to realize that you or your loved ones will eventually be unable to make major decisions on their own. Before that time comes, it is common that people consider a health care proxy, living will, or power of attorney. However, many people are unaware of the significance that these documents hold. It is important to understand the difference among these various forms depending on what you and your loved ones want.

Health Care Proxy

A health care proxy is a document that directs who will make your medical decisions for you after you are deemed to be unable to make your own decisions by a physician. Usually a family member or trusted friend is assigned this role to execute medical decisions of your best interest when you are unable to. You will be able to continue to make your own choices as long as you are still in the right state of mind. For example, if you were to fall into a coma, the health care proxy you appointed would take the steps necessary as per your wishes in this unexpected situation.

Living Will

A living will is simply a document that contains your medical wishes written for family members, friends, and health care facilities. In the situation that you will be unable to communicate your health care wishes, this document should give loved ones and others an idea of what you would have wanted. This document does not appoint anyone to oversee and speak on your behalf. It is purely a document stating your medical wishes.

Durable Power of Attorney

A durable power of attorney assigns a person (or people) to make financial decisions unrelated to making health care decisions for you. This includes factors such as paying your bills and can even include managing real estate and other assets. It is possible for the health care proxy to overlap with the power of attorney but there is a separation between the two. Power of attorney relates to financial matters while a health care proxy is exclusively medical decisions.

To summarize: a health care proxy dictates who makes your medical decisions (in both predicted and unexpected events) while a durable power of attorney dictates who will make your financial decisions for you. In addition, a living will is just your medical wishes on paper for any possible event that may arise.

A factor that people tend to forget is that an agents’ authority can be temporary as well as permanent depending on the situation. In the situation where you may be physically incapacitated for a limited amount of time, the agents’ are able to make decisions for you during the time you are unconscious. After you wake up, they lose their authority. In permanent situations such as being in a vegetative state, suffering from Alzheimer's, or otherwise, agents will be allowed to be authorized to make decisions on your behalf.

It is crucial to consider which loved ones would be the most suitable to carry these forms of authority. These kinds of documents may save trouble in the future in case anything arises. For more information on health care proxies or estate planning, please contact the Law Office of Inna Fershteyn at (718) 333-2395.

How to Avoid Conflict Between Your Power of Attorney and Health Care Proxy

When assigning people to be your power of attorney agent or health care proxy, you are bound to choose the people who you deem to be the most fit for the role. A health care proxy is someone who you assign in advance to carry out your medical decisions when you are deemed unable to. A power of attorney agent is someone who is also assigned to make financial decisions for you in the situation that you’re unable to. In some cases, they can be the same person for both positions but in other cases, they can be different people. Although a power of attorney agent has different responsibilities from those of a health care proxy, it is not uncommon for the two to occasionally have some overlapping decisions. When this happens, the possibility that there will be conflicts between the two is not surprising. So what are some ways to prevent these conflicts?

1.) Choosing One Person For Both Roles.

This is the simplest and most popular choice when deciding on who will be responsible for both roles. It allows for just one person to make your decisions for you (both medical and financial) in your best interest without having to go through the trouble of talking- and possibly arguing with another person.

2.) Pick Two People Who Can Get Along With Each Other.

Sometimes, it’s not reasonable to choose just one person for both roles. Not everybody is good at everything. For example, you may have an ideal person in mind for being your health care proxy but that same individual may not be a good choice to represent your finances. In this case, you would have to get another person to be your power of attorney agent. Although “getting along” may seem self-explanatory, people tend to choose others who are simply suited for the role while overlooking clashing personalities. This can lead to arguments down the line so it is best to ensure that the two representatives can get along and sort out issues in a calm manner.

3.) Assign a Third Person With The Power To Settle Disputes.

If necessary, adding a third person to be a mediator of the two can decrease the number of conflicts that may arise. Additionally, this person’s name should also be included in the documents indicating what their role is. It is best to discuss with all parties involved about your wishes and what you would want to happen in the case you become incapacitated.

It is never ideal to have people bicker over what you might have wanted. Hopefully, with these tips, disagreements will not occur between your health care proxy and power of attorney agent. If you or a loved on is having trouble figuring out estate planning, please contact the Law Office of Inna Fershteyn at (718) 333-2395.