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What Are My Responsibilities As My Parent’s Guardian?

As parents reach their elderly years, sometimes people may find themselves in the position of being their parent’s guardian. Before obtaining guardianship for your parent (or parents), it can be helpful to know the responsibilities you will have to take on when you become a full-time guardian. Learning more about the possible incoming responsibilities can also help be a deciding factor for if you would rather take full responsibility of your parent or move them into a nursing home.

In some cases, you will be appointed to be a guardian if your parent:

Has dementia or Alzheimer’s

Has suffered from a stroke

Has cognitive issues

And a variety of other reasons

Oftentimes, it is common to seek guardianship of your parents after they have become somewhat incapacitated. It is easiest to be appointed guardian if both parties (you and your parent) are able to file notice with the court. The court takes into account age, mental/physical impairment, as well as the risk of harming themselves or others when considering guardianship. As long as your parent can display a reason for wanting guardianship, it is more likely that the court will grant the request.

So what will being your parent’s guardian actually look like?

After being appointed a guardian, there are some basic responsibilities to overlook:

Handling finances (such as paying bills, keeping financial records, etc.)

Consenting to medical treatment

Managing the estate and assets

Deciding on long-term care as well as end-of-life care

These responsibilities mentioned are just some of the many responsibilities that will eventually come to be. Being a guardian is a huge responsibility and takes a significant amount of time and energy. This position should only be done by someone who has the time and care for the parent. Remember, there are always other options for taking care of your elderly parent and that you don’t have to shoulder all the struggles on your own.

During your time as a guardian, you should always make sure that you are following your parent’s wishes to the best of your ability. If your parent still can, be sure to ask for their input and what they want. When choosing to be your parent’s guardian, you choose to give them the best life you can. Guardians are usually family and do not get compensated. For some people, being and taking care of their parent is more reassuring than leaving them in the care of a nursing home.

Being a guardian is not an easy job nor is it a role for everybody. In order for your elderly parent to live the best remaining life they possibly can, you can make the decision of if being their guardian will fulfill that or not. If you or a loved one is considering guardianship or options for elderly care, contact the Law Office of Inna Fershteyn at (718) 333-2395.

Coming to terms with a loved one’s deteriorating mental health is never easy. However, if their mental health reaches a point where they are unable to make decisions, it may be necessary to look into obtaining guardianship of their care. A senior guardian is granted legal authority by a court to make decisions for their loved one who is no longer capable to do so themselves. An individual that a court decides is no longer able to care for themselves is called a ward. A senior guardian oversees a ward’s daily care or financial transactions, and sometimes both. If you are considering obtaining guardianship, it is important to become informed of both the required time commitment and emotional demands. It is crucial that you also understand the constraints this may place on your newly evolved relationship due to the necessary limitations placed on the ward’s independence.

Types of Guardianship and Guardian Responsibilities

When an individual is deemed mentally incompetent in a legal setting, they are named a ward of the state. A senior guardian, often a loved one, is then granted the power to oversee their care. Guardianship is divided into two categories that deal with different aspects of the individual's needs. The first category allows the guardian to oversee the ward’s daily care. On the other hand, the second category grants the guardian power to oversee the ward’s personal and home property. There are also instances in which the guardian is granted full oversight over both; this type of guardianship is known as full or plenary guardianship. This oversight may be granted to one guardian or split amongst two individuals according to daily care and property management. They then must work together closely when making important decisions concerning an overlap of the two.

Guardianship of the Person

Guardianship of the person administers oversight of the ward’s daily life: medical, residential, and social decisions. If appointed as a guardian that presides over these decisions, the responsibilities may include:

Release of confidential information
Oversight of residence
Determination of residence location
Applying for government/medical benefits
Providing consent for medical treatments
Making end–of–life care decisions
Making sure their care is managed in the the least restrictive way possible
Reporting to court at least once a year

Guardianship of Property

This guardian is also known as a guardian of the estate: someone who manages the ward’s finances and property. First, an appraisal of the ward’s income, assets, and debts, must be assessed. Then, the estimate must be filed with the court once a legal guardian is appointed. The guardian must always keep the ward’s funds in a separate account from their own and cannot allocate these assets/income toward their own needs.

A guardian of the property may have the following responsibilities for a ward:

Deciding how finances are handled;
Applying for and managing government benefits
Making investment decisions;
Paying bills, rent, and taxes
Keeping detailed records of all income and expenditures;
Requesting prior court approval for the sale, donation, transfer or mortgage of their property
Reporting to court at least once a year with a complete account of finances

** Sometimes, when a guardian applies for and manages government benefits on behalf of another individual, a power of attorney is required. An elder law attorney can professionally and adequately prepare a power of attorney that proves a guardian has the legal right to act on behalf of another individual. A POA guarantees an agent the right to act on behalf of the principal.

Accepting the Role of Guardian

There is no denying that accepting guardianship of a loved one is an extremely demanding emotional process and is time consuming. When a guardian obtains oversight of a ward, they are agreeing to surrender an individual’s independence to their care. This is difficult to come to terms with and often a rigorous process determining when to allow independence and when to place constraints on it. It is also important to understand that every case is unique and what may work for one ward/guardian relationship, may not work for another. A guardian agrees to take on the role of protecting their ward from abuse, exploitation, and neglect both from themselves and their environment. Before accepting this decisive role, it is important to voice your concerns with other family members. It is crucial that you are confident in your answers to two questions: Do I have the time and emotional strength to qualify for guardianship of this individual? Is there someone else I know that would be a better fit? Once you have the answers to these questions, it is important to obtain professional legal advice and elder law administration.

For all of your elder law planning needs, please contact the Law Office of Inna Fershteyn at (718) 333-2395 to receive help in obtaining guardianship.